I feel like I'm getting a full workout with T-tapp and Callanetics both, and it really doesn't take much more time to do just the arm exercises plus the Callanetics.
I was running behind this month, due to an extended break. It was only a week, but it totally threw me off. I've been working out on weekends to catch up. But, I'm up to 14 hours as of today, so I'm caught up, at least.
And, I say that you're absolutely right for waiting. I love my kids, and I'm sure I would have loved them if they'd been born 10 years ago. But I got a whole lot of selfish time in that my cousin and my sister didn't get to have. When I had an extra $100 in my 20's, I took myself shopping or to a spa. Tracey bought something for her kids. Kind of like I'm doing with my extra money now.
But, when you grow up like I did, with every article of clothing as a hand-me-down, you want to spoil yourself a little. And I know it would have been a quick lesson in growing up, but I kind of liked taking my time about that.
But, then again, my sister's kids are almost grown, and she's living like I did in college, so I guess it evened out for her. But she's a grandmother at 39. There's something not right about being called Nana before you're even 40. (Her son and his girlfriend accidentally made a baby when he was 17.)
Are you married, or are you getting the questions about kids along with the questions about finding a partner, too? I used to think that lesbians and gays never got that kind of pressure, but these days,
no one has an easy out anymore.