Sat, May-17-08, 15:24
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Senior Member
Posts: 272
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Plan: low carb
Stats: -/-/-
BF:
Progress: 39%
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Thank you everyone. I feel better just sharing this and getting sympathy from you. I got quite upset after the conversation with my mother on the phone, because she told me that I am obssessed by this, that she just read recently in some newspaper that sugar is not bad for you, and that when my kids will come and visit her, she will give them only pasta, junk food and sweets because this is what they like. She is very overweight and has a lot of health issues in connection with that. She knows about low-carb eating, and she told me that she herself feels better when she tries to eat like this. But she doesn't carry it through by getting rid of all the junk food she has in her house. Plus, I think, she experiences some kind of a vicarious pleasure out of the idea of stuffing my kids with the food she shouldn't eat herself. Maybe this way she could eat less by watching them scarf it down, if it makes sense. But she also does it to irritate me, because she thinks that my ideas about healthy eating and cooking everything from scratch are stupid and I am a victim of propaganda.
I do try to explain to my kids about not eating candy or a lot of refined starches but when they are at her place, they are only too happy to eat the junk food that she serves them or go with her to MacDonalds. Plus my son is at a rebellious stage. He thinks that it doesn't matter for someone his age what he is eating, and he doesn't care what he would look like or what his health would be when he's 35-40, because he will be too old to care. He is naturally slim, so all the junk food doesn't show on him yet. I'll just have to try to limit the time they spend at her place without me. But that is hard.
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