Sat, Dec-01-07, 09:51
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Posts: 9
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Plan: starting with moderate LC
Stats: 196/177/140
BF:
Progress: 34%
Location: Deep South USA
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Originally Posted by Snuz
I'm not sure if I ever thought about it like that. Maybe I (we) are more comfortable with being at war with ourselves. I'm sure that's, at least, part of the story for me. I sure know what it feels like to be in chaos, misery, angst with myself, but peace? I didn't know that was possible. That's huge as far as I'm concerned. But that would mean accepting myself in a new and totally uncomfortable way. And that's a change I'm not comfortable with.
Part of learning to be at peace, I beieve, is to be living in the present moment. I'm afraid that has become cliche, but there is truth about being present and then I'm not worried about the future or angry about the past.
Thanks Elle, very insightful.
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That's great insight as well, Snuz. It's not only weight in my life but clutter and procrastination. It's being stuck in Steven Covey's escapism Quadrant Four--the "Quadrant of Waste". Behind it all for me, is an emotional need to stay isolated. If I have a messy home, I don't have to let friends into the intimacy of my home; if I'm overweight, I narrow the prospects of relationships. There's one friend who can come over, and one man who loves me for my mind and heart, but I'm slamming the door shut on most everyone else.
Then there's the interrelationship of all the the above plus pretty much no spiritual growth. Certainly not a peaceful place.
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