Thu, Sep-21-06, 15:01
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Posts: 45
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 257/171/130
BF:
Progress: 68%
Location: Central Illinois
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As i lose weight, the politics of it with people larger than me or the same size has kicked in. One lady says, "Oh, you can't HAVE that" as if I'm stupid for not having "that". She also makes a point of eating sugar in front of me than saying in a condescending way "Oh, I know you don't like this, but its good."
I am constanly getting judged because I eat higher fat foods, but will not eat pasta, pizza crust, sweet potatoes, oranges, apples...you name it. "I bought ice cream for dessert, it's fat free" (my mother-in-law)."But that has so many more calories, how can it be good for you?" "Aren't you worried about you cholesterol?" Jeez, none of these people gave a darn about what I ate when I was obese, but now that I am doing something about it, everyone has some kind of comment to make to me. I realized these people are actually threatened either by my success, or by what I eat, I'm not sure which. My husband and I went to his mother's house for his birthday dinner. Over half of what she prepared was off-plan for us. We did not make a big deal about it, just put on our plates what we could eat and left the rest alone. She said "well, when you are invited to someone's house for dinner you can't expect them to cater to you". Since she had been harrassing my husband to lose weight for YEARS (not the kind of gentle statements of concern I mentioned before) I would have thought she would have been more supportive of his decision to lose weight (he has already lost 65 pounds!). Now she's upset that we aren't doing it "the right way" which according to her is low cal/low fat. Some people are never happy.
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