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Don't tell me just use will power because thats a bunch of bull. Being overweight is a disease of sorts and after awhile it just gets to you (especially during induction) to snack.
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In my opinion the issue is not willpower, but commitment. If your stats are accurate, you've been low-carbing for three months and haven't lost a pound. Again, *if those stats are accurate*, I think you need to do some serious thinking about your commitment to this style of eating. If they are not accurate then I could well be wrong about your commitment situation.
One thing I've learned in reading this board is that the people who have been successful in losing a large amount of weight, which is what I am working on, rarely, if ever, cheat. You can't hope to lose a lot of weight without a high level of commitment. The "will power" comes from the commitment. You don't have as much to lose but I think the principle still holds.
I live in a house with a wife who is supportive and 2 teenage daughters and my Mom, and I am the only one doing serious low carbing. I was a fanatic for potato chips in the old days (a big reason why I got up to 390) but when I went low-carb I didn't even throw out the bags we already had and I never touched them. We threw them out months later because they took up too much space in the pantry. Did I have willpower? Hah!!! If I had any willpower I would have lost weight the first time I tried when I was 224, rather then end up at 390 10 years later. For me the turning point came when I was diagnosed with t2 diabetes and had to decide whether I wanted to see my girls grow up, whether I wanted to keep my eyesight, whether I wanted to keep my feet. My "willpower" was so well known that I don't think anyone who knew me thought I had a prayer of getting my weight under control, including and especially my doctor. I was even thinking that if I didn't find a way to lose weight I would look into weight loss surgery. But I fell into this low-carb way of eating and the combination of a strong *commitment* and good advice is working. Trust me, I haven't all of a sudden sprouted willpower, as can be amply demonstrated by other areas of my life.
On a practical level, the whole issue of snacking can be dealt with by allowing yourself to snack but changing what you snack on. As I've lost weight I've had to start keeping a little closer eye on calories as well as carbs. But when I was getting started, which *is* the hardest part, if I got hungry at night I just threw a frozen hamburger patty into a pan and in less than 10 minutes had a juicy delicious snack that beat the heck out of a half bag of potato chips Sometimes I even ate it with, gasp!, mayonaise. If I wanted a sweet I made some low carb chocolate peanut butter cups with a recipe I had found. I always had things around to snack on that fit my way of eating. You have to plan and you have to focus on all the great things you can eat, both for meals and for snacks, that you could never have eaten on the deadly "low-fat and die" way of eating.
When my daughters sometimes complain because they don't have this or that I tell them "Look around, you are better off than 99+% of the kids your age in the world - don't focus on those few things you can't have, focus on the many many good things you *can* have. If you spend your life appreciating what you have you'll be a happy person. If you spend your life brooding about the things you don't have you will have a bitter unhappy life". And I have had to bring that same attitude to my eating. Maybe I won't eat pizza, but I will make and eat a cream sauce for roasted turkey that tastes so good it would make a grown man weep. Maybe I don't eat sandwiches anymore, but I have discovered that salads with meat and/or cheese in them - antipasta salad, chef's salad, grilled chicken salad - are delicious. I *love* my new way of eating!
So it is committment and a change in the way I think about food that has worked for me. So by now, when my wife and kids have pasta with dinner it doesn't tempt me in the slightest. It is not willpower. I would need willpower if I really wanted that pasta but couldn't have it. But I am pretty much completely indifferent to the pasta. I have other things I eat that satisfy me and I get the added bonus of knowing that my weight is steadily dropping (something I had never experienced on anything like this scale) and that I have a pretty good chance of living out a normal lifespan with my eyes and my feet intact.
I'm not trying to tell you what to do, I'm just telling you some things that have worked for me.
Well, this message is ***way*** too long, but I hope there is something in it that might help you. Good luck.
Rich