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Originally Posted by Whofan
Do you perhaps think that you'll fail?
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Well there's always that fear but it's a separate issue really. I actually relate more to this sentiment...
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I wanted to scream at everybody "This fat old woman isn't ME. I was slim once!". When I started losing weight I felt that people who didn't know me before were seeing who I really was. I mention it because you too had been a slim teenager for several years.
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Slim teenager? Yes...relatively. I was 150 and 5'6. I never felt thin enough though.
All my friends had flat stomachs and I didn't.
I'd also have to hear them talking behind other girls backs who wore a size 11 and "omg, that's sooo fat!"
I didn't take part, because I knew what it was like to be bullied about weight having been an obese pre-teen. However, I was hearing it while sitting there wearing size 13 junior jeans...or more likely size 10 womens jeans because junior sizes and low-rider jeans that were in fashion then didn't fit my body right.
I hope this comparison doesn't offend anyone, but I'd imagine it'd be like a gay teenager listening to his/her friends make homophobic comments.
There were exceptions. In high school I did have guy friend who was very overweight, and I once commented that I knew what it was like. His instant response was "No, you don't!"
He's the one I told.
Then in college I maintained the same weight and grew 1 extra inch at 18. Things started changing then because if I'd make an offhand joke about being fat, they'd look at my like I was insane.
However, then I gained the weight back after graduation....and yeah. As I mentioned, I've now moved, so most people have only seen me like I am now and I want to scream "THIS ISN'T ME!"
The way you look at it, as them seeing the real you, is a good way to turn it around. At the moment, I feel like they think the fat woman is the real me but...maybe it's me that still thinks that even after all this time. Ugh.
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If you REALLY don't want to hear compliments and comments about your weight loss just start 'informing' people about how wonderful low carb is and the science behind it every time they try to compliment you. They will soon stop mentioning your weight for fear you'll launch into another lecture.
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LOL. Awesome idea! Oh, and I totally believe you when you say it'll work.