Finally accepted that I'm an emotional binge eater
I keep "almost" writing a post about this but finally got around to it today.
I finally see it in myself - I'm an emotional binge eater. Maybe not to the same extremes as some others, but I can finally see it in myself.
I've been low carb/Paleo for over two and a half years now, and I've been bouncing around the same 40-50 pounds up and down.
I've learned so much in this time, like how to feel good when before I thought feeling like crap was normal. I had considered that I might be a binge eater then dismissed the thought when I read about some other peoples experiences.
But in the last couple of months I've been trying to look objectively at my eating habits, why I go wrong when I start eating crap again, and actually realising that when I start eating sugar and grains (mostly sugar, or the combination of the two), I really do gorge myself for days on end.
And then realise I have to stop, and then the cycle begins anew.
Sometimes I'll manage to stop for a whole month, maybe two, once even managed about six months - but something always sets me back. One bad day or "event" and then I spend a few weeks or months eating everything in a packet in sight again.
And I really finally realise now, that the cause of that is my emotions. I guess it might sound obvious, but the extent of it really didn't occur to me before. Sure, when I've been eating paleo for a while I'm fine - stable, even. But something negative happening can just knock me off course, and I'm reaching for chocolate bars in the shop, without the conscious thought but the FEELING that eating it will make me feel GOOD.
For a split second. And then before I know it I've eaten dozens, over days, to keep that feeling there. And then I wake up feeling like I've been hit by a truck, and that cycle is back to the start again while I try to kick start my eating.
I think I've been trying to quietly truck along, thinking maybe one of these days I will just stick to it, but I've realised I HAVE to face that I can be an out of control emotional eater. And now that I've really looked that truth in the face I can fight it the next time I feel it.
When I'm feeling low, I try and tell myself; Food is FUEL. It will not make you feel better. I've been compiling lists of things to do in my head as alternatives (that don't involve spending money).
Things like; watching my favourite movie, quit working/studying for an hour and go play a game or read a book, take the dog outside! .. and so on.
Anyway, I really felt like I had to get that down in writing, so I can't deny it to myself anymore! All you guys and gals on here who fight this every day, I admire and respect you, and am so proud of you for overcoming it.
I try and remember, every day is day 1!
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