Thu, Jul-14-05, 13:20
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Plan: My Own
Stats: 280/118/117.5
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Progress: 100%
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I totally agree with the trainer. This is the reason they advise people to lose weight slowly. Slow weight loss isn't objectively better, it's just an indicator of doing things that make STAYING at your goal effortless. If you make slow little changes one at a time, giving yourself time to adapt to the changes and live with them, you are better off than the person who goes on optifast or has their stomach shrunk with a surgery, losing gobs of weight really fast. Because, when you eventually reach your goal you are pretty much already in maintenance you know but the person on optifast or who basically got anorexia surgery needs to figure that out. I can't tell you how many times I've read "success stories" where people plan on bearing down and getting to goal asap, but then doing something like binging once they get there.
This is also the reason formal diets don't work. First of all it forces people to take on too much at once. Except very few abnormally organized and/or motivated individuals, most will eventually rebel against all the sudden extreme changes by dropping the diet. Diets don't give you enough time to adapt to change. People need to feel safe and secure and comfortable, too much instability and change and lack of comfort (the familiar) is poorly tolerated by almost all (except for that minority previously mentioned). So almost no one turns their diet into a lifestyle change, despite what everyone says they are doing.
Also, diets don't concentrate enough on getting people to realize it's all about changing who you are with food, on learning to make the right choices of your own volition. Instead they work on a primitive "moralizing" of food - that food type/amount is bad and/or forbidden, that food type/amount is good and/or safe. People on diets never learn it's not the FOOD, it's how you're eating it, so they never quite get that they have the control to make the right choice. There needs to be more focus on learning to make good choices to achieve what you want to achieve, not following rules out of fear or ignorance.
Formal diets are basically strict rules that you are following, it's unnatural and no one does it forever. Formal diets can be a gateway to lifestyle changes, though, they are usually a step you have to cross before you know what & how to eat.
Either way, the fact is big goals are made up of lots of little changes. Learning how to make lots of little changes in your real life that you can do forever more or less naturally and innately (without a lot of self-forcing and conscious control) is what successful weight loss is all about. Anyway you can do that is the real goal, not a size or a number.
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