Would be honored to be your buddy! We will do this!
I agree with what you said about having one extreme so wanting the other. The girls have been so huge that I just want them gone, gone. I rather have tiny girls and use a fun padded pushup bra. My A cup friends and my bf think I am nuts, but they dont understand.
Surgeon said she left me between a C and a D. I havent had my fitting yet, but I think it's more like a D. Even with no swelling, it's still a D. I'd like to be a C I think. Still in the surgi bra, but I see her next tuesday and I'm hoping that will change then.
As for everything else, I am very happy. They are bigger than I wanted but they do fit my proportions. They seem pretty symmetrical. I cant believe I can actually see my nipples. I used to think they were arrows pointing at my knees or something. I have normal sized aerola, not huge dinner plates. Not all the tape has fallen off yet, but from the scars I can see they actually look really well. Thin and not at all irritated anymore.
They have a great shape to them as well. They are finally starting to round out and soften. I think I chose a great plastic surgeon (specializes in breast reconstruction for cancer patients), and I would recommend her to anyone.
My favorite things have been: a guy at the bus stop that I usually see every evening asked me where I've been the last month. I told him I had some time off. He then said "I hope you dont think I'm rude, but I think you lost weight, and it looks good."
And the second: Today I am wearing an empire-waist shirt. I wore it pre surgey because it's flowy and hides my gut. Before, the band that would separate boob area from the flowy bottom would be right across the breast, and the shirt would hang straigt like a mumu. But now, my girls fit into the designated boob area, the band is right under the girls as it should be, and the shirt has a shape to it
It really is amazing, isn't it? Thanks so much for all your advice, patience, and support. Good luck with your visit today, and please keep up posted!