Listen to this.....
I was curious on how much attention and respect are given to women who are "thin" on dating sites.
This is what I did. you might think I am "silly" but here goes.
remember: I did not do this to be "mean" to anyone on the site...........
1. I put a picture of myself up as myself now under a name under a dating site.
2. I put a picture of myself when I was thinnner of myself under a different name on the same dating site.
This is what I found out.
Hey, it was actually kind of fun; no harm done I would never meet these guys anyway!
I found out that most men are basically cruel to women who are overweight. These men did not know it was the same person in the two different pictures....
First they would not speak to me more than once, the fat me.
These guys would ignore me when I tried to instant message them, yet when I signed off and went under my other name there would be a dozen emails and instant messages waiting.
I realize this may sound "dumb" to do for some people,
Yet I wanted to find out the real reason why these men were ignoring me. It was not me, it was my fat.
I would never meet one of these men when I lose the weight, because basically they were not nice to me in my real profile.
Doing this helped me to realize what some of these internet dating guys are all about.
But the "sad" part about it was; most of these men were not good looking by any means, they were just stuck up and in some "internet dating dream world!"
take care, Gina