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Originally Posted by costello22
Same here. They seem to actually believe that it's somehow to their credit that they're thin. I want to ask them if they think they're thin due to some effort on their own part.
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It's like being proud to have brown hair.
In this case I actually get less angry at the super skinny people that eat and eat and eat...because they acknowledge that metabolism differs from person to person.
Now, the thin person who eats a "normal" amount, and does their Jane Fonda video 3 days a week will tell you that if you do that you will be thin and they are thin because they have self control or some bs like that. It's all about moderation, control your portions, park far away, take the stairs, use smaller plates...do this and you will be thin!!! It's not your medication...a doctor would have the decency to acknowledge a known side effect of the drug you're taking. Just buck up and show some self restraint...
God I hate those people. They are seriously all the same. There is also one special breed, the really really skinny ones, that will try to pull the whole "accept your body for how it is" crap, and you know they're still judging you and thanking frickin' god that they're thin....let's put more shame on the fat people right when they're trying to make a positive change!!
The worst part of it all is there is no winning an argument with them. We've tried it all, we know what works, and in our worlds Atkins (or what have you) has worked, and we know it's healthy. They have tradition and most MD's and nutritionists and books behind them and it makes them feel safe. It's what they know. Bacon and mayonnaise are just way too scary. I've just refused to have the conversation if I notice a hint of disapproval...just like when I try to tell people that anti-depressants aren't a crutch but a necessary part of my life. And don't get me started on the whole "crutch" thing. What happens when you break your leg and you don't have crutches? Your life either is waaaaaaay harder until you heal, or you permanently f**k up your leg. Anyway, in both cases I literally say "I'm not going to discuss this with you" and change the subject.
I could go on and on about people like that...but what it really comes down to is numbers. Pounds, kilos, inches, centimeters, cholesteral, blood sugar, blood pressure....but then they're convinced that in 20 years your butt will fall off or something...