Hi all,
2nd Post here. I just joined Bally's last week, and had a lot of the same feelings or misgivings about going. Sef conciousness, worry about other peoples attitudes, etc. and I've found that most (if not all) of the people there don't pay the slightest bit of attention to you. And if they are . .who cares ? No matter what you look like now, everyones is there for the same thing. No one can fault you for wanting to improve, so quit worrying about what others at the gym think.
I find it motivational to see people that have worked hard and acheived great looking/in shape bodies. I also (and this will sound bad, but Im not being mean!) find it motivational to see the people that are worse off than I am too (not many of those at my gym that I've seen, but). It's like other peoples motivation motivates you and it's great.
I'm lucky I guess that all the people in my local gym seem mostly very down to earth. I am probably going to go to a total of 3 Bally's because of different locations and convenience (One is 5 minutes away from my house, one 5 minutes away from work, and one five minutes away from my weekend workout buddies house). Hopefully I 'll have the same luck there.
For those of you worried about other peoples attitudes etc. try to tour a gym first and see what the people are like. The types of people you see there at any given time will reflect how it will most likely be all the time.
I know the gym is not for everyone, but I know that working out at home isnt for everyone either, and that I personally would never or very rarely do it at home. It's just too easy to put off, or get distracted.
Whew, long post. Thanks TrainerDan and everyone else for sharing your knowledge and experience.
Met