ShesGG, I pretty much stick with Bernstein's 6-12-12 formula. Occasionally (like for a holiday), I'll go 12 higher but that's more the exception than the rule.
Breakfast usually is black unsweetened coffee and a couple of eggs or a
mock danish or a serving of my homemade flax cereal (mixture of ground flax, wheat bran and unsweetened dried coconut mixed with heavy cream, Splenda and butter). Sometimes I'll have cereal and eggs (still less than 6 grams of carb for breakfast) but I'm not usually that hungry in the morning.
Lunch is usually some type of leftover meat and either a salad or a veggie.
Or I'll make a rollup with a low carb tortilla and lunchmeat, mayo, mustard and lettuce if there's no leftovers from the night before.
During the winter, I'll often have a pot of low carb soup in the refrigerator; (vegetable beef, broccoli cheese or chicken) and take a container of that for lunch.
Dinner is pretty much the same as lunch; some sort of meat, some sort of veggie (or two).
It's not all as plain and boring as it sounds. I like to cook with lots of herbs, spices, garlic and onions and there are some rockin' recipes in the
Low Carb Recipes forum.
Looking at your menus, it looks reasonable from an ADA perspective, but your blood sugar readings are giving you a clear message that it's more than your body can handle, even with your current medication regime. Many people find that they do okay on that sort of regimen for a while (myself included), but then they need to add more medication or a different medication to keep their blood sugars in range and the whole cycle starts up again.
I got off that merry go round when my blood sugars got out of control the first time and I wound up on meds and my doctor's POV was that what was happening was invitable I could expect more meds as time went on and eventually insulin. That just wasn't a road I wanted to continue going down if I could avoid it.