Please don't take yourself out of this.....I can only share my experience with the foods that I've eaten to lose my weight. BUT, if I stopped posting, then all anyone would ever read is the other side of things.
I do eat a small amount of whole grain every day.....but didn't as I was losing my weight. It was the one thing that when I took it out of my food, I'd see loss...with it, I wouldn't. It really is a YMMV thing.
What I will not eat is processed grain that is in a cereal box....especially if it has sugar added. I don't even know if Total is one of those but if it is, its a big

on my list.
I do eat Quaker "old fashioned oats", not instant, and add in H&H on top and some cut up fruit....very nice!

It does not cause me cravings at all...its very filling and keeps me full for many hours.
One thing that I have experienced with the cravings thing is simply the longer I stayed on my plan, consistently, the easier its become....cravings are a thing of my past.
I now eat 1-2 pieces of fruit per day and 1-2 servings of a starch, along with my proteins and veggies....the more exercise I do, the more starches I eat.
On the weekends when I'm not walking as much as when I'm working, I generally eat less. A starch for me today is either 1 slice of Ezekiel toast, 1 Wasa, 1/2 cup sweet potato, peas and carrots, butternut squash or 1/2 cup of oatmeal. Those are
my choices.
We all need to find which ones work for us...or not...and create our food plan based on what we learn about our body....as this is all a big science experiment as we learn about our individual body......YMMV is what is key here.
