Emotional Issues of Maintenance
Well, this is an issue I haven't seen addressed here, and wondered if others can relate....
First, I want to share that I reached my minimum goal weight as of yesterday......I did it, I made it to 140 pounds, a weight that isn't "ideal" but the minimum of what I could live with considering I was facing at least a 76 pound loss. My ideal goal was to fit into a pair of 28/36 straight leg, shrink to fit levi's. I am currently in a 29/36....I have an inch in my waist and abs to go to make my "ideal" figure.
Secondly, I owe a big kudos to JudyinNYC -- she strongly suggested that I take myself shopping, as I was wearing my fat, oversized clothes after a 70 pound loss, and didn't realize to the extent of how small I actually was. Taking her advice gave me a HUGE euphoria....trying on clothes that actually FIT made me feel sexy, fit, and GREAT. Thank you so much, Judy, for your advice, it was a big eye opener for me!
Now, I am noticed often by men, to an extent that my husband is noticing and commenting about it. I haven't been carded for liquor or cigerettes in ten years.....now, I get carded every time. I walk into a store with no make up, sweaty from working out or sunbathing, and guys start flirting with me. Sure, it DOES feel good! However, before, I felt like I faded in the background, I am starting to feel....well, a little exposed. Not sure how to handle this extra attention -- it feels a little strange.
Anyone else?
Lori
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