I'll just say it. Fashions in bodily proportions are absurd. Our bodies distribute fat differently, thin bodies, fat bodies, bodies in between. We can't force our bodies into the preferred mold just beause the fashion has changed. It's a bother when clothing proportions don't correspond with one's own proportions, but to worry about it beyond figuring out how to get clothes that fit is just an exercise in frustration. Much better to come to terms with how your body is and learn to live with it. As Renee said body shaming is just wrong and harmful, both when someone does it to someone else or when you do it to yourself.

Jean