Sandy,

I think when I get to the point of goal to keep my self going would be a new outfit everymonth.. ... Even if I have to go to the plus sizes to compare it with the old me to the new me..

The only reason I got into the mode of accepting a compliment, was a customer of mine started yelling at me. . it was more to prove a point.
He said now why cant women just say thank you. or they wont tell you what they want and be straight forward.. So I took him up on his offer.. I told him ok I need a hair cut and I cant afford to pay for it.. He said ok, not a problem.. He came into work the next morning and said.. Hello your hairdresser is here.. and cut my hair on the spot.. And from that point on I decided to just say thanks and start telling people what i want.. Not that it will work all the time.. But to get to the point and not say one thing and mean another.. That really confuses men Although I dont mind keeping my hubby guessing..

charmed