I hear what you're saying, Ryax. But most comments and inquiries about appearance are just makin' conversation, not looking for advice.

Those who are seriously interested can solicit the full spiel from me. Even so, I've found that people who ask for and receive advice often begin avoiding me--as though I were somehow responsible for their feelings of guilt when they fail to follow up.

I'd rather not be in that position, thank you. Nothing takes the place of individual motivation and commitment.