Teena-
Thanks so much for the thoughtful reply!! Even though I have read it all, it helped to have you say it too! LOL
I know that I may gain and that is hard for me because I am at my highest right now (195) and am in a size 16 jeans. I would be totally happy in a good size 14. I have no plans to ever try to be a 10 again BUT I really don't want to go into an 18. For me, that would be very hard. I would have to go out and actually buy new clothes since I seem to settle at a 16 after having kids and that is the highest my clothes go.
I'm going to cross my fingers that the worst thing is that I will stay the same for awhile...I can totally do that If I do go up, I am going to need some major support!! Especially since my dh just started working out and "watching" what he is eating and has already lost 15 lbs in 2 weeks! Don't you just hate that about men???